Trying not to lose my way in the ultramarathon

[NTX_Dad]

jb - good to hear from you.

Its interesting to hear our observations about your W. Compare that to your new life. What a difference.

I noticed some of those things in my W when we were apart. I sometimes felt a "calling" to intervene, but was advised (wisely so!) to leave her alone and let her figure it out on her own.

I loved her and wanted to help but that would have driven her away even more.

It's quite a dilemma. The important thing is to "keep on keeping on" and taking care of yourself and your S.