But, if you've read my current thread (I think I saw you there) about emotional unavailability you know that we meshed perfectly. As my IC says, I was always overfunctioning and he was underfunctioning (neither of these is good or bad, it's just who we are/were)
Yes, I had a need to control because in my childhood back story, if things weren't done and done right, the boom was lowered with a vengeance. Like you, my survival skills did not serve me well as an adult.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
