My anger comes from way back of course, but in my M it was kindled by my drive to be perfect both at home and on the job and then when I had kids, it really got crazy. I allowed my resentment to grow because I was working so hard to keep all the balls in the air and he was, in my opinion, doing nothing. Or at least not enough. Read my thread for the specifics but we were hand-in-glove.
The perfect storm of dysfunction although we looked good on the outside. (I'm smiling 'cause I know y'all get that)
I absolutely can relate to that. Now do you think it was your desire to control that helped prompt all those balls in the air?
