Accuray! It is so good to hear that your sitch has turned around! Who would have guessed your W would have responded the way she did? Regardless, I couldn't be happier for you! Thanks for dropping in with an update. I was wondering. It's unfortunate, no two sitches are alike and so people can't replicate what worked for you. Well, I hope things continue on their current course and the two of you have a long and happy life together! ((()))

Soul, thanks for brainstorming for me. I appreciate the effort. And as for the holiday, I just got word yesterday that our annual "girls weekend away to the lake to drink and shop" is scheduled for next weekend, so I am outta here! Perfect timing, I think. Of course, EVERY weekend is perfect timing for that. LOL! I'll miss S12, but he'll be fine with dad.

I had a 5-minute follow-up with H in regard to the second convo I posted. I said I noted that his responses to my question of what people were advising him that he could do to improve the M were things that he thought I should do, and I wanted to address that question again. He was quiet for a minute or two, then replied that no, there is nothing that anyone was suggesting to him for him to do.

So it's official. I am M'd to the perfect H. There is, apparently, absolutely nothing that my H could do better or different than he does today that would improve our M.

It's also official, then, that I don't want to be M'd to him or to anyone else, since he is the standard to which all other H's should aspire to be.


Me:49 WAW H:59
T:19.5 M:19
S:13