Well, hon, who said you had to leave the BB? Of course you stay here for support! I was just in some of the same state as you a week ago. You need to drop the rope on the sitch. You need to detach, and take care of you. I think you are trying to hard to make things change around. It's your H's journey, so leave him to it. You just go about your business. Take your time with the papers. No rush.
