Arsene, I have caught up on your sitch and feel will need to stick together. I feel for you being torn between spending any time with W but knowing they will soon be in the arms of the OM. If you choose to continue spending time with W, tell yourself that every text she gets is from OM. At some point it stops driving you nuts and you then can refocus on "as if". Deep down I know it hurts but we are trying to show them our new, attractive side that will draw them back to us. For me this is tough because I wear my emotions on my face. W can see exactly how I am feeling. But as I have gotten stronger my emotions have followed suit. Happy belated birthday! Stay strong my friend!
H: 35 W: 37 S: 7 T: 10 M: 8 OM: Apr. 29 2012 PA: Aug. 31 2012 DWord: July 29 2012 DWord on hold since Sept. 23 2012 DB'n Since October 8 2012
