Congratulations on setting some boundaries! I agree with Denver on letting her drive the conversation for a while. I haven't initiated a call or text to W since October 8. The first week their was no contact and now she is calling and texting almost everyday. W will feel in control and you will also be working a 180 on her by not showing control yourself.
H: 35 W: 37 S: 7 T: 10 M: 8 OM: Apr. 29 2012 PA: Aug. 31 2012 DWord: July 29 2012 DWord on hold since Sept. 23 2012 DB'n Since October 8 2012