More of the sake old room mate routine, except tomorrow she leaves for 5 days to "get some clarity"... Of course my mind thinks it's to "figure out how best to let you go"... I put those thoughts aside as much as I can.

It makes it even harder since the only complaint from W is that I don't ever have needed conflict with her, that I am a clam when it comes to emotions especially tough ones like anger.

So what should I focus on while she is gone?

I know I will be working out and working on my project, but I really feel in my gut I need to show W at some point I know how to develop GOOD conflict skills and that's going to take an argument or a conflict. Well several of them for her to even think it's real change...


Me - 30
W - 28
M 4
t 6
ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011
Band-aid Jan 11'
ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12