I totally agree. I think all of us know who the new an improved Denver is and all you have gone through to make you a better man father and husband. I don't think you dwell on OM one bit. You have set your boundaries and I she has followed them to the letter. Everyone on here has read many sitches that have had fall out. Your is no different. I was reading on hear yesterday about telling family members the whole story. If you tell them everything and they form an opinion , when and if there is a R , the fallout sometimes can be bad and you can't re-establish that relationship even within your own circle. So revel all you need my man, OM is a grown up... Rock on and keep us posted.