MKB, have you seen a doctor for OCD? it sound like you're experiencing life like someone else i know. he has to wear earplugs around his house because he can't take the noise from his 5 kids.
he also has to be in control and is angry a lot.
have you thought of getting help through some anger management classes?
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing