afa, certainly, I don't think this is a male only thing, anyone can be emotionally unavailable.
breakdown, as I've said before, we married very similar people.
Acc. you brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for your honesty and for the vote of confidence. You've been with me from the beginning as I remember your first post to me and the hard question: "Why do you want to be married to him?"
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss