Probably too late to catch you before H gets home, but you're in my thoughts.
Just a thought on H "pushing your buttons" of late...
There are just so many possibilities here:
- he IS pushing you, but WHY? Have you fell into old, pre-db patterns that might be fueling this?
- he's stressed, lashing out, not really too conscious of it all
- the thing with his folks...definitely an issue, but as JJ said, a biggie for another day. And why ASSume he did the shopping thing specifically to p!ss you off?
That's really mindreading in the worst possible way!
Hope you 180'd him, A, or at least had a peaceful reunion.
