I am most certainly scared! Scared to lose my best freind, someone I expected to share my entire life with and also scared for the future of my children. I cannot imagine even spending one day without them under my roof. With lots of hard work and some good grace, I pray I never have to find out how that feels.
I am too, but not nearly as much as I was a few months ago. The key is to not let it show. Be cool and confident, and concentrate on your own life. Once you decide that you'll be fine on your own if it comes to that, this becomes easier to do. We may really want them, but the truth is we don't need them.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl