Hi Wishing n Hoping,
I'm just catching up on your thread. I noticed you have some info on OW that may not be coming from H. Is his sister telling you this stuff?

It may help you to ask her to stop. Staying clear of gossip will eventually help you feel more serene.

Take care of WnH!

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017