So I had to actually talk to him about our finances today. I really had no choice. So I also didn't ask him anything which was good. Although, he just sat there. I could tell he had an attitude. No idea about what. While on the phone I had told him some things that are going on with S14 and that I thought he needs to stop seeing his gf (s14's gf I mean) And then I asked what his your opinion on it? He said it doesn't matter what I think because you are going to do what you want anyway and started with his tone. So I just said Sorry you feel that way. I will talk to you later. Bye and hung up. lol it was abrupt. Although to be honest, I could tell he was mad or irritated about something. I really am not sure what. I haven't talked to him since Tuesday of course, that is when he hung up on me. I suspect I stopped the fighting pattern and he has been stewing. Maybe I am wrong. I don't know. So then I sent a text because I knew I was rude and it said, "I didn't call you to fight. Frankly, if I ask you for your thoughts it is because I'd like to hear them. Not sure why you are angry at me today." Of course he never responded and I didn't expect him to. I probably shouldn't have even sent the text. Not sure if it was even the right thing to say. Sorta don't care. I was completely unproductive today. Anxiety came back with a vengeance today. That's never good. I am not sure if it was because I had to talk to him or what. I knew I was going to have to. I was just dreading it.
