Hey, JJ...wish I'd been online, we could've chatted.
Well, he called last night. He is really pushing buttons. I tried not to let him get to me but he did...I let him. We had discussed him NOT stopping to go shopping in the city, and planned a day trip shopping together after he got home. This way he could be home earlier...cut and hour or so off of his day.... Well, he called and I mentioned I was looking forward to seeing him around 9...he said no, I am going shopping for my folks..so it will be later.
HIS FOLKS...HIS FOLKS...HIS FOLKS....I AM SO SICK OF THEM COMING BEFORE ME AND S.
Feel better now. Was venting. We argued. I told him since he was shopping for them, he might as well shop for us...I would zip him off a list...he said he thought we were going to town to do our shopping..and I was making his trip longer by adding another grocery list!
He always shops for us...so I had suggested he not to be able to get home earlier..then what does he do? Call and see if his folks need him to shop for them!
I eventually said..fine don't shop for us. I guess I have to decide if I am willing to live being third in your life...always coming after your family and your job. I don't know that I am.
I am no longer looking forward to seeing him tonight at all. He knows his folks are an issue with us and I swear he did this on purpose to piss me off.
I am so very close to just going back to the attitude of getting a D. I am afraid that my tolerance for being treated like sh*t is no longer there.
I swear, I love the man he used to be, but this alien jerk who blames everything on me is NOT loveable. He is cruel, mean, and self righteous. He does things on purpose to p*ss me off.
I am definitely not in the mood to make . Maybe he can do that with his folks, too. Then his life would be complete.
I have not said much about how they interfere...but it is like he is still attached to them and will never grow up and be a man with his own family...he needs them and their approval and has no friends except his daddy and mommy. It is sickening.
Whooo...it felt good to get that out. I know how my SIL feels now. They blame her for everything that goes wrong in her marriage to BIL...and he is perfect (sarcastic). It is their way...they are perfect...everyone else is wrong...they must win everything....they are competitive and self righteous and cold...the most non-affectionate people I have ever met in my life.
And they wonder why their sons' wives are always so upset? Give me a break.
. Maybe he can do that with his folks, too. 
