Today I am feeling quite down b/c it is only 2 days until H moves out.
It is on his mind constantly and he TALKS about it to me like I am a good friend wanting to know the details of his move. (Should I get a long couch, HD-TV? Should I take all of my clothes now or just what I need for now....on & on!!!) I try to listen w/o judgement but inside I am upset he is SO focused on himself and BLIND to what he's doing to ME and OUR FAMILY!
Not that I've put a ton of time into thinking about the holidays yet, but I'm sure this topic will come up A LOT soon on this forum.
Now that H has moved out but we have no real "rules" for celebrating w our boys. I feel strange that he wouldn't be here, but I think I will feel strange if he is too.
Any thoughts!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
