I have definitely got a list in my mind. For starters if he is D what is his take on it? Did he learn from it? Will he discuss it? A lot of questions I would like to ask. lol Probably run screaming from me. How do you feel really about cheating? Leaving? Anyone in your family do it? Parents? How will we resolve disagreements. Will you tell me if something bothers you?
Then the normal stuff. Job. friends, interests. I agree with money. It is hard when things are not even. One might feel inferior. That's no bueno.
