Not much to say-I've been commiserating with Tumbling as I so closely identify with what she's going through. How do you guard against becoming involved with an emotionally unavailable man?
It's a concern because I'm sure at some point (when I'm finally done with this R) I'll be attracted to someone and I don't want to wash, rinse, repeat. My H is such a nice guy, I don't think he has any enemies but he also has no close R. It would be very easy to fall for another Nice Guy.
Maybe I should make a list: -Does he have close friends who are stable? -Does he come up with interesting, fun things to do? -Financially secure-not that I want his money but would like a level playing field. -Married before? What happened? -Able to state his feelings when he disagrees with something
Feel free to add to this list, friends.
I'm going to a fundraiser tonight for one of my favorite causes, Mother’s Oasis which serves the women of my city who have mood and emotional health issues during pregnancy and the postpartum period.
I'm going to bid on something in the silent auction in honor of several of my friends here.
And it's a Mini Chimi and Nacho bar, which will call for a Margarita!
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
