I had the same feeling a couple of days ago Tumbling. Just wanting to get SOMEWHERE. I felt like calling and saying x this, x that, bla bla bla.

I chose not to, and after a while I realized that the only reason for me wanting to do so was my feelings in that moment of time. Those feelings pushed me.

Maybe our counterpart has these feelings from time to time, or maybe not. BUT, I doubt they have them at the exact same time as us. Even if they do, they probably wont show them easily. Therefore I'm glad I didn't call.

Stay strong, when you get in a better place things will become more clear.

Together for 8,5 years.
S2
Interest in OM.
She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out.
No signs of OM, not digging.
Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.