The conversation that you had with your h is him disrespecting you. I suspect you've had many a conversation like that with him over the years. Ones where you put your heart out there and he rejects you then is vague refusing to give you any helpful, meaningful reply.
MC told me that when my h starts to become vague, giving lots of I don't know answers that I should just end the conversation. You have conditioned each other to give these responses over the years. Your h knows that he can make you beg by giving those type responses. You have to condition him NOT to by stopping them right away.
And you can't tell h what the rules are....he doesn't play by the same rules as you. So you are just wasting your time just telling him about opposites, asking him what he wants. Respect your man by treating him like one...keep it simple...food, affection, gratefulness, and sex. Read the book "Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" for insight.
Keep it simple. He says he doesn't know well then you say ok I'll see you when you get home then. Bye.
Recondition that man of yours don't trade him in for another model!
