"Meaning that he wants someone to tell him that what he is doing is okay & that as long as he is happy then that's the most important thing."
No. He wants someone to tell him that his feelings matter. That's why one of the first rules of DB is to validate their feelings.
Your H has a right to feel what he feels. What you should tell him is that you understand that he is unhappy and that while you feel his ACTIONS are wrong, you understand and support why he feels the way he does and hope that one day he can do be same for you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
