JZ, what the heck is her hold on you? Her behavior sounds like bipolarism and Schizophrenia combined. She seriously sounds mental. I don't care how attractive she is, nothing is worth the kind of abuse and confusion she's putting you through. I think that once you get away from her, in retrospect you are going to wonder why in the world you put up with it. If the two of you had been married for 10+ happy years then it would be worth working on, but you got together in May which was less than 6 months ago and you're not married. Sounds like none of that 6 months has been a field of daisies, maybe you need to just accept that the two of you are not compatible.
