Still together but trying to save this

[Denver_2010]

Why don't they want to try guys? Because they have no incentive to. You have to create a sense that they could lose you if they don't try.

I agree, but isn't she already willing to lose me. I mean, she walked out and wants a divorce, so doesn't that inherently mean that she already knows she is going to lose me?

Her mind has her convinced that she is willing to lose you.

Think about how you feel in the early stages of a R... the heart flutters, you're googly eyed... no one else matters. Also Google the word "limerence".

Tell me why I think that the above paragraph may be relevant to the post of your's that I am responding to...