Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
Why don't they want to try guys? Because they have no incentive to. You have to create a sense that they could lose you if they don't try.


I agree, but isn't she already willing to lose me. I mean, she walked out and wants a divorce, so doesn't that inherently mean that she already knows she is going to lose me?

Me - 32
Wife - 31
No kids
Married - 3
Together - 6
"I need space" - July 2012
Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012
Separation - September 2012