I think I am going to ask him what he would like to do...that would be a 180 for me... I usually try to make dinner or bake a cake or do something for him and he shies away from my efforts...perhaps sees them as too controlling? But if I ask...what could I do to make your evening relaxing when you come home Tuesday night? Perhaps he will respond with something more than ..."nothing, I just want to come home and get off the road after driving..." Maybe he will open up and give me a clue as to what would be an enjoyable relaxing evening together with me...his wife. And even if he just wants to watch tv...or read the paper...if he tells me what he wants...then I can give it to him... Thanks for responding...Bob, I do feel like a school girl.
