Sorry LS13, if you were offended in any way by my comments. I just get the feeling you've already given up and resided yourself to the fact that she's leaving the marriage, when she's still there and you should be concentrating on DB instead of talking about who gets what after a D. Have you read DR or DB yet?
Hi FY, I am not offended at all.
I haven't given up, just detaching and GAL. I haven't lost hope but i also can't setup up myself for failure. So I rather think she is truly leaving (all her actions make it seem like it anyway). She telling me she wants to see the OM today, is another sign that last night was false hope.
I have read the DB and DR books and I am still practicing it. I still believe but today when she said she was going to see the OM in Dec.....that was a gut punch.
