I don't plan on leaving the house at all. As for the weekends, its not that I don't want the weekends. But i don't want her to avoid being a mom for 3 kids. Right now, her fantasy with the OM is distracting her from reality (3 kids need her time).
Plus the OM lives 1000 miles away, he doesn't have the money to visit. Her work, doesn't give her alot of vacation days, so the only times she could visit is on long weekends or Holidays (which we agree, we will spend holiday's together)
Basically if she or I want a new relationship, we need to work around the schedule with our kids to make it happen. I refuse to be the "Enabler" and she needs to realize at some point, the weekends will be her scheduled rights to see the kids. I will not let her avoid being a mom and at the same time, I won't be an "Enabler" of the affair.
