Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung


The above is speeding up the D process. Quit helping her. D may be what she wants NOW, but will she in 6 months? A year? Is it what YOU want? Consider talking to a lawyer to learn how the D process works in your state, and how you can stall it. Again, you need TIME.



Try, when i said I helped her, I mean i gave her some information. I didn't actually file it myself. I refuse to do that. I am not being proactive on it. I plan on contesting (not signing it) it so it takes the full 2 years.


Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung


How long do you think she'll be happy with this new guy? What's the chance they will marry and grow old together? How happy will she be years from now when she realizes what she did to her kids and family, and the Husband who loves her?


Long distance relationship, not really knowing him after 16 years....I assuming this won't last unless the guy moves up (he is 1000 miles away). If she comes back to our relationship, then i need to deal with the aftermath of "Can i live with this pain"


Me:36 W:34
T:15 M:10
3 kids
S8 S5 S1
D-Day 9/17/2012
OM Confirmed 9/18/2012

Month of November found my balls