AnotherStander Thank you, see its encouragement and realating to the sitch just like you have that is helping me get through this.
My h said I don't have to be polite to him about this, I said no, I have to be adult and true to my character. You want to be yelled at and abused, that's the punishment you put yourself through, not me.
AS: If by chance he doesn't leave I am going to continue to speak up more and place my boundaries appropriately. I'm done!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
