People here also mention how easy it is to overlook the baby steps. I guess I'm guilty of this as well.

I just realized something that happened yesterday.
I picked her up from work and we got stuck in horrible traffic. We were at risk of not being able to pickup S from daycare before they close.

W asked if I wanted to call my mom to see if she could pick up S and possibly make us dinner.

Just last week W made a comment that she didn't want to see my family because it would be to awkward since they knew we were having problems.

This seems to be small change in W's thoughts.

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done