I think you’re making this much too easy for her. If you want to preserve your marriage, you need to SLOW DOWN the process, not speed it up. Quit helping her so much. What you need is time for her to change her perception of the marriage and the OM. Time to see that her present marriage can be better.
Slow down the process? I can't stop her from seeing the OM, she is already filing the papers.
I already told her, when we split custody of the kids, i won't cover her weekends for any activies that involve the OM.
