a few more notes...
W made the "emotional mess" comment again last night before she went upstairs, in part due to the fact that she has another medical dr. appt today due swollen neck glands or something like that. Anyways, I did encourage her to tell the dr. everything, medically speaking, maybe there's a bigger picture going on with her; and did ask if she had any luck with in contacting IC. She has been waiting for IC to call. I encouraged her to call.

This morning we were more than pleasant towards each other. She sent me a lengthy text, that included an invite to spend time with her and the kids doing Christmas related stuff this weekend, "if I don't have any plans." I do have some plans, which are cool. I discovered W.O.T.E. is playing near my area, and I wanted to go. I texted a friend, who fortunately does like their music and already had tickets, so I bought one and that's what I'm doing tomorrow night. Saturday so far is open for me. I replied, to the invite, "maybe...when are you going to do that," and wished her luck for the dr. appt.

Last comment for now.
For all of you who have helped me and I hope continue to do so, "Thank You," I'll do my best to get to your threads sooner than later. 8)

(((( )))) to all!