There will be many days in the future when your h will be ill. He will have fevers, feel run down, aches, pains and yes, his stomach is going to give him fits, as well as not being able to sleep. It's all part of the mlc journey. You'll need to sit back and watch the show.
I'm glad his sister questioned him about the ow and her kids coming to the reception. They don't care if this is the right person in their lives right now. They want what they want and they want it right now. They don't care if this person will be the one to remain in their lives or not. It's almost like they want to show off a trophy to everyone and say "hey, see, I may be getting a bit older, but I still have it." He may opt not to take her to the reception since he's been questioned about it. Time will tell on that one. But, if he does show up alone, he'll have some excuse about the ow being busy, etc.
I can understand why you don't like his behavior right now. Most likely this is the way he was as a teenager. You still love the man, but you are going to hate the behavior more and more.
Grab a seat on the curb and watch this show zoom down the road. Popcorn is fresh and plenty on hand for all to share.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
