I want my wife to stay married to me - Check She will start contacting me - Check She will start asking me how I'm doing - Nope We will get together for dinner - Check She will start spending time with me - Check
As you can see this is why I go back and forth with the boundaries. I know it will need to be done but as you can see my short term goals have been met. Do I need a little more patience before I set my boundaries? 4 Weeks ago we weren't talking, presently we seem to have contact initiated by her everyday. Too bad the OM is such a strong presence because I would feel much better about all this contact.
Do I show her a little more patience or wait till I know they are together again before I give her the letter?
H: 35 W: 37 S: 7 T: 10 M: 8 OM: Apr. 29 2012 PA: Aug. 31 2012 DWord: July 29 2012 DWord on hold since Sept. 23 2012 DB'n Since October 8 2012
