Have not called or emailed or beeped him and it it s 2pm here. Don't know if I can go dark ....but it is a 180 simply not to call him at all during the day and to not have anything to fight with him about...and to not let him push my buttons to get me to fight with him....so I will probably not be able to keep myself from talking to him tonight...but that is progress...and if I can keep from fighting with him no matter how crappy his attitude is...that is progress too...so, we'll play it by ear...maybe by tonight I won't feel like I have to talk to him...who knows? We'll see. All I can do is try to do my best to not beep and call and email all day...which I have been successful at so far today. hugs....akgal
