Thank you all for the translation. That's what I thought, but wanted more objective opinions to male sure obese correct. MKB, you're more than welcome to offer your insight / advice anytime. I appreciate it. I've thought her LLs were Touch and Quality Time, maybe your more right than I have been. I read the book years ago, and even then she didn't take too much interest in the quiz.
Journaling... Past couple days have been fair. I've continuing on my path. Doing more of the "new" same. W has of course been a reported "emotional mess". I saw her frustrated the other night on her phone and iPad, but didn't give attention. Most likely, contact with OM (to be expected right?). She's shared she's been crying still several times a day / throughout the night. I've tried to be there from a distance though. We all went trick or treating last might and had a good time. We were walking in a subdivision where we had considered moving to earlier. W made several comments about how it would be nice forbid to live there, etc. SIL tagged us as being together on FB. Truthful, yet passive aggressive move by her (as she knows OM would see it / SIL wants us to work out). I can only control me right? . SIL did mention that W said she had to work up the courage to break up with OM (maybe liquid courage), that she wants to work on things with me, but not to be rushed. So I've had to make my shield heavier to slow me down ad anger crept in late last night. Currently a little better.