Cadet, I have a question for you... how do i know when it is best to stay dark or to act as if/display my changes? i ask now bc W has some things to drop by the house.. she asked if she should just leave them in the garage bc that is what i requested last time.
MHO is that you will know with your intuition, if you dont know then best to do nothing. Trust yourself and dont think that there is only one opportunity, there will be many more down the road.