NLW, I hope you have a wonderful birthday tomorrow with your kids. Thank God they are healthy and you can be with them on your special day. Be thankfully you have a home and food and all the nice things that surround you.
Sorry for sounding so vindictive about OW. I still feel so much rage when I think of her and the texts she sent me. She's a person like everyone else. When she has kids and a husband of her own, she will doubt his fidelity.
About your bday, make it a bday month! Go out every weekend. To lunch/dinner with different sets of friends and family! Enjoy this bday!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017