Paperwork almost done, but not me!

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When your friends tell you the opposite of DB, then tune them out or ask them to refrain from these talks. It can be so discouraging.

I used to try to explain what I was doing, but since have stopped. I do tune them out. It is a shame that so many people look at marriages as disposable.

I have absolutely no one, except all you, that support my efforts. Everyone, EVERYONE! has given me their 2cents. But this is my fault because in the beginning I would ask EVERYONE for their advice. So they continued giving me advice even when I didn't ask for it.

Now I don't discuss any of my sitch with them and if they do I say, ok gotta go. and hang up or walk away. This has isolated me but I have a lot more serenity.

Also, about the dating. How would you like it if your W was dating while she was trying to fight for your M? Sounds weird don't you think?

Point well taken!^^^^^