In my head I didnt share or ask because I didnt want to push or pressure.. She however is looking at it as me hiding things from her and not including her in my emotions/feeling which is what I have done for years to help get us in this mess..
Uggggg....
So let me get this straight (I'm barely catching up on the last part of your thread so I apologize for not reading it all), you used to hide your emotions/feelings from her before all this?
So what's your 180? Is it being careful as to when to talk about R with her? Holding back when your in a neutral setting (ie MC)?
Please explain since I'm new to your sitch.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017