Originally Posted By: Just A Guy
In my head I didnt share or ask because I didnt want to push or pressure.. She however is looking at it as me hiding things from her and not including her in my emotions/feeling which is what I have done for years to help get us in this mess..

Uggggg....


So let me get this straight (I'm barely catching up on the last part of your thread so I apologize for not reading it all), you used to hide your emotions/feelings from her before all this?

So what's your 180? Is it being careful as to when to talk about R with her? Holding back when your in a neutral setting (ie MC)?

Please explain since I'm new to your sitch.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017