The crack in my perfect life...

[2chiquitos]

Sweetbriar,
Wow SB. My H would've done the same. After all the times I've told him not to come, he will still show up! One day I had my cell on silent he text me. "I feel as if I'm bothering you." But then he continued calling. I wonder if your H struggles with boundaries?

What's his family like when it comes to boundaries? Will they also do things after you've asked them not to? Just wondering. This will make it harder for you to enforce them.

And Halloween with your girls! How fun! This year S4 finally understood that people give out FREE CANDY! lol!

And OW sighting. D@m $itch! Can she at least MOVE to another city! jeez! These events are not in your control. The question to ask is, what are you going to do to keep your serenity when things like this happen?

Please consider Al Anon. I wish I had gone the day I found out. Instead I committed to it when I had already been in this sitch for 7mos. Finally, after 6mos in the program, I'm feeling like my old yet new and improved self.

Take care.