I was feeling the same thing. The one thing that bugs me is when she told me that she was leaving was one of her main reasons was that we were sending the wrong message to the kids. By living as roommates, like the kids knew what was not happening in the bedroom. Talk about the wrong message, I am leaving but I will stop and see you around dinner time. I know I am confused.
So I will have to figure out the best way to cross that bridge. It does feel wimpy, also my anger is so close to boiling that seeing her right now is not helping. I thought I was mad before she left but now it seems to be worse. I do not have a anger issue on the outside but I keep it all bottled up. Which is not good.
