Don't date til YOU have decided that you no longer want to pursue DB. In the meantime find other ways to fill that emotional void that don't involve someone of the opposite sex.
Don't fall into the love addiction.
You are right, especially since it seems pretty obvious that my w has not completely come to terms with her decision. Would not want to push her further away. I know that is my perception, and perceptions can be dangerous, but I will go with this one.
I have friends that went through this that say don't waste your time waiting and hoping. The thing is, they are still the same as they were before their split. I like this path of personal growth. Turning something that was absolutely terrible at first into to something great.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
