Today we talked about custody of kids and based on the best interest for kids.
M-F I get the kids due to my flexible job and willing to Stop my career growth. W picks kids up Friday and drops them off Sunday.
Here is the catch...she wants to visit them anytime during M-F and cook for them. Which is odd to me, can't complain, it allows me to interact with her.
However she also proposed to alternate weekends. Which I then replied "no, I will not alternate weekends because I get them M-F and I want the mom to spend as much time as possible with the kids. She says she needs some weekends to get out.
These boys are 8,5, and 1. They don't need parents that want to have a single life...I know having your own free time is important but am I selfish in thinking with kids so young, it's important that each parent spend as much time with kids equally. I felt like she was giving me a 70/30 custody.
Abandoning 3 kids at such a young age and then telling me she doesn't always want the kids on weekends.......
