Appreciate I am posting a lot at the moment but am I seeing any signs. I know its early and I am accepting S, but...
Shortly after BD(before I discovered DB) W complained her slippers were starting to wear. So when I was in town I got her a new pair (wrong I know!). She kept them in the back, and got her old slippers repaired n continued wearing them.
Tonite when I got back home she had the new slippers on. I even checked the old ones and they looked ok to me.
I mean slippers, I can't believe I am looking at slippers as a sign...but...piecing together 1 or 2 other possible signs: - Communication has improved a lot. - Secrecy is less, she even leaves her mobile lying around and keeps her FB page open when I walk in the room. - She tells me about her plans for the day instead of just vanishing, she tells me where she is going in the evenings - we have had a couple more civlised conversations re living arrangements, furniture etc. - she mistakenly got into the M bed last night, she is sleeping in her own bed tonight - and now yes, the slippers
Not that I am thinking major breakthrough, just small signs things are improving.
Or am I just a fool?
The other thing is I thought about offering to help clean the house. W looked exhausted and I felt for her. The house she is renting is a mess apparently inside. Its a decent place, but needs painting, cleaning etc. Or is my current strategy of giving her the time to do it, by looking after S the better one?
She looked like she cld use the space from me as well.
