Now, if a car is appearing outside your home at late hours, I would suggest leaving the lights out and calling the police. A disposable camera won't get a shot in the dark. A long lens on a SLR camera with the exposure opened up will - and that is expensive if you don't have one.
I would suggest calling and talking to the police about the situation prior to it occurring again, so they don't hear it the first time when you are all upset.
About the phone call and caller ID, I am all for just letting it go. Maybe your H did call - but from another phone at work or another line on the same phone. My H's work phone just grabs an available line, but not always his number.
Just keep DBing - you can do it. Acknowledge your emotions - but keep them in check.
You are strong and you can do this.
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
