Don't date til YOU have decided that you no longer want to pursue DB. In the meantime find other ways to fill that emotional void that don't involve someone of the opposite sex.
Don't fall into the love addiction.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017