Originally Posted By: eyesopen
Just wondering what the general concensus is on dating during a seperation and possible divorce. I not thinking about it from a jealousy standpoint, more from a thinking about a future without w. And also from a primal urge standpoint. Part of me thinks that until there is a divorce I am married. The other part says she has made her intentions clear.

Not that I would be looking for anything serious. More to get out and do something other than climbing. Maybe I should just work on my flirting and social skills. They are pretty rusty.


If your partner is out there screwing around, and you are left being an emotional tampon or punching bag. Literally a cuckhold against your will.

Then you have to consider whether its OK to take on a lightweight relationship which she's on her detour. It goes against the standard DB principles.

But the funny thing is once you have done the act with the new one, you really will see how easy and normal it is to have a relationship with someone and you will detach from the garbage the WAW is feeding you. It helps you to see clearly.