My W has made it easy for me to set my boundaries. Having seen first hand what her and OM are up to makes me want to set these boundaries so I will no longer be hurt by her actions. Easier said than done but I have been dealing with this pain for so long and know that this is the only thing keeping me from truly being the husband I want to be. After Mondays visit I felt something different. I didn't feel like she had that spell on me anymore. I wasn't nervous, or scared, I was confident and finally realize after months of saying it but not believing it, that I can live happily without her. Do I want this marriage to work, more than anything in this world! But after years of neglecting my happiness I know now that I need to respect myself first. I realize tomorrow I may feel like a puddle again but as time goes on these days are growing less and less. Looking back I was confident when W and I first met and maybe that's the man she has been looking for.
H: 35 W: 37 S: 7 T: 10 M: 8 OM: Apr. 29 2012 PA: Aug. 31 2012 DWord: July 29 2012 DWord on hold since Sept. 23 2012 DB'n Since October 8 2012
